I don’t say it much but I appreciate everyone who reads my blogs and makes comments…but I want to say it now while I’m thinking about it. I don’t often reply to comments like I should. There were two comments left on the “Princess” post. One from both side of the field.
The only thing I wish is I knew who the posters were. LOL Are you you people I know? Have we ever spoken?
Sometimes it helps me understand where someone is coming from to know who it is or what their life is like.
I guess while this doesn’t have anything to do with not putting a name on your post a similar thing that is important to me is knowing where I stand with someone. Wishing for truth no matter how bad it hurts. It’s what made me have issue with my ex-husband or ex-boyfriends of the past. It’s why I want a poly relationship…so I know that if there is “outside” activity….I “KNOW” about it….you know?
I’ve never been huge on “communicate, communicate, communicate” despite how much I like relationships where I can communicate….but I generally feel like if I know exactly what’s going on…I have no problem going “ok…at least we were all honest with what we want”….rather then being left to wonder how come no one ever told me.
So thank you to the person who told me how you felt no matter that I might not want to hear it…and thank you to the person who defended what I would like to have and saying you think I’m worth it. Both of your comments mean a lot to me.