{"id":3671,"date":"2006-04-10T17:36:51","date_gmt":"2006-04-10T17:36:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kimiko-dreams.com\/items\/date\/2006\/04\/10\/ok-this-just-bites\/"},"modified":"2006-04-10T17:36:51","modified_gmt":"2006-04-10T17:36:51","slug":"ok-this-just-bites","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/2006\/04\/10\/ok-this-just-bites\/","title":{"rendered":"Ok this just bites!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So I&#8217;m going through my Lifehack RSS and coming up with some damn good stuff to help me and I find <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vandruff.com\/art_converse.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this link<\/a>&nbsp;about how NOT to talk when someone is trying to converse with you. None of it&#8217;s particularly helpful until I find this statement and then I just want to swallow my own head cause I know I do it.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h3>PRETEND AD HOMINEM:<\/h3>\n<p>A specific escalation of YOU&#8217;LL PAY FOR THAT; make it seem as if the other person is attacking <em>you<\/em> rather than making a simple point or correction, especially if you suspect that the other party is correct. Rather than staying on the subject, begin to act hurt&#8211;as if you have been viciously attacked as a human being&#8211;rather than admit you are wrong, or could do better, etc. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t do anything right&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I suppose in your eyes I am just a total failure.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p>[&#8220;I think the reason people are honking and gesticulating at you is that the sign says MERGE, not STOP.&#8221;] &#8220;Well, if you think me such a terrible, horrible person&#8230;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I&#8217;m going through my Lifehack RSS and coming up with some damn good stuff to help me and I find this link&nbsp;about how NOT to talk when someone is trying to converse with you. None of it&#8217;s particularly helpful until I find this statement and then I just want to swallow my own head [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3671"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3671"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3671\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kimiko-dreams-com.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}