I have always had a really supportive family. I’ve been REALLY lucky that way. I’m happy that that luck has continued on in Daddy and Tatsumi.
Why do I bring this up?
Mostly cause I had to call my mom today to ask for some help and I heard my Dad in the background go “Ask her how Adam is.” That’s not that odd of a question until you realize that I only told my mom about him. I was really surprised and touched that my Dad thought to ask that. She put him on the phone and Dad asked me again and I said he was fine. Dad said good and that he’d like to meet him sometime. He’s gotten to meet Daddy and Tat and now he’d has included Adam in my life. That makes me really happy. I asked him how he knew about Adam and he said Mom had told him a little and considering I’m very open with my Mom and see no need not to be with my Dad I started to ask “Did she tell you….” and he went “Yeah I know,” before I could finish the sentence.
My Dad is just as open minded about things as my mom…we just don’t talk about all those things and since we don’t…I thought it was really cool that he’s just as happy no matter what differences Adam may bring to the table. The thing that pisses me off most about people besides talking behind other people’s back is lifestyle type prejudices. Especially from people who matter to me. So this makes me extremely happy. ๐
As a side note, my mom told me she cleaned up a picture of me that I posted to my blog so she could have it as a 4×6. She went on to tell me that she did a little touch up of the one I’d sent her of Adam he’d given me and she could see his face more now. That he was really handsome. ๐
Tat has been really supportive and tries to keep me in check so I don’t go to fast or get to silly and ruin a good thing. She even helps me get to see him and talk to him. I love her for that. ๐ Daddy asks me things like “when’s your bf’s next break?” or teases me about my “booooyfriend”. He says he likes seeing me happy and I am happy that he trusts me and is certain enough about my feelings to let me see Adam when he doesn’t need me.
This really could be everything a girl could hope for…as long as I keep my shit together…and with a great guy helping me do that…I might have this one in the bag. ๐